Movies real or not
Have you seen a movie and gone wow.. so romantic :) Then don't just loose your mind in this thought. Start thinking about your love story and you just might realise that even your love story is not less than a movie. You can imagine a story track just run them like a movie in your head.
The advantage of a movie is that all the charters are written by 1 person and his view point is all what makes the character, whereas in a real love story you have all the characters played by individual person with their own point of view. So why think that the movie world is so realistic and every person wants a relationship just like the story from their favourite movie.
I would say the real love story is more interesting since it is filled with surprises and oneself doesn't have a control over them, don't you think this is what make life more interesting. Some says or some incidences can be tough to overcome but when they pass and you think about the old memories you become proud how the situation was handled. It teaches you lot of angles in life and help in becoming a more sculpted person.
Try reading through your relationships old mail, letters, messages and you will understand that you have come ahead of so many issues, difficulties and yet reached the level you have today. There can be come relationships which have failed for which I feel bad, yet when you remember them you will understand that the relationship has taught you so much.
Every person which passes through your life teaches you some thing and if you are in a relationship then that teaches you much more than you realise. So don't just live in a dream world of movies, live your own life and you will thank to all the people who have come in and went. Since they have given you valuable lessons in life.
Even the stories from movies have some hint of real life people or situations, it is just that the writer was able to correlate and observe these situations in real life and connect the dots to make a wonderful movie. It so happens that your best hero or heroine play these characters and get life in them with all the best sets. Do not forget to loose the excitement in real life while running around these stories, since you are real and movies are not.